Let Her be Her and love Her for it

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Tell her that she’s beautiful.. Tell her and tell her often. Sit on the bathroom stool and watch her do her makeup.. Sit quietly and listen to her fuss about her gray hairs, wrinkles and the bags under her eyes.. Then? Tell her she’s beautiful.. Take her to her favorite restaurant and let her order everything she wants off the menu.. When it comes? Just smile when she says she’s full after eating the bread.. On the way out ? Tell her she’s beautiful.. Clean the snow off her car before leaving for work and surprise her with a note on her dashboard telling her she’s beautiful..  Let her paint your toenails at least once.. She will ask..  When she’s old, she will tell everyone and you’ll be glad.. Get her something she does not need every year.. Something special.. Take her for walks.. Don’t make her ask..  Spend time with her. Watch her sleep often.. You’ll be glad you did. Pour a cup of cold water over her head while she’s taking a shower.. It will remind her of her youth.. 🖍 Dance.. Take her dancing.. At the end of the night? Carry her to the truck.. Do her a favor.. Don’t leave your boots in the middle of the floor.. Ever. Have a spare key made for her car.. Hide it somewhere on the car.. She will need it.. If you see her wearing a sundress . . . or any dress for that matter, compliment her . . . if she’s wearing it in the middle of the week?  Immediately, look at her hair..  She’s gotten it cut..  Pay attention to the things that are important to her..  They should be to you as well and for that very reason..  Most importantly.. Be there for her.. Just be there..  “The Maker Said Take Her and Love Her Forever..”⏳

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  1. Wow…. Love this! And you’re exactly right! That is what EVERY single woman wants to hear. EVERY one… regardless of age or relationship she is in. It passes down a generation too. If a daughter sees her dad treat her mom this way, then she will expect it when she is looking for her partner in life. Sons will know how to treat a woman too. Thank you for understanding. 🙂

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    1. You are exactly right. Kids learn best by example. Truthfully, the best leaders lead without anyone knowing they’re being led. With parenting? Theres no better time or place to demonstrate it.

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  2. Nena says:

    My husband to the T! I’m very thankful and blessed:) Wonderfully written!

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    1. I am still looking for my Cinderella! 🙂

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      1. Nena says:

        You have the right idea of how you will attract the perfect one☺️

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      2. Exactly! I know exactly what I want . . . so does she.

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  3. I love this!!! Very well written!! NIce to see a guys perspective sometimes lol. I love the clean the snow off of her car part…I hate doing that haha. My poor car loves the snow a little too much haha. I am thankful for my brothers that help me when they can haha. I also totally laughed with “let her paint your nails” part! HAHA! I would totally do that, especially when he is sleeping haha!! Life is precious and it is so important to have fun while you can. I love those little moments because in reality they are HUGE moments!!

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    1. Yes they are! Just be glad you’ve figured out what’s important at such a young age. Some people never do. 🙂

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      1. This is very true lol!

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      2. Just don’t settle. Wait for what you’re looking for.

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      3. So very true!! I see that happen way too often!!

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  4. amommasview says:

    Brought a smile on my face 🙂

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  5. Your understanding of women is astounding! Truly! I don’t know any man who does most of these things. Keep looking at the world in this way. For you, I believe she’s out there and you will find her. This made me smile:)

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  6. They are out there.. 🙂

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  7. This is so beautiful and just love the photo.

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  8. Now this is the kind of information someone should have given my ex!

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  9. anaatcalin says:

    Wow! I wonder how long until the man gets tired, in the most real sense of the word; it’s such an effort to regularly do things that don’t come natural hehe. This was a super interesting read, espcially since it’s to atypical for me. People say I’m a guy who happened to be born in a woman’s body, and luckily is gay, so I ended up a heterosexual woman with the mind of a guy LOL.

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  10. This is beautiful you did captured that inner essence living in every woman and a wonderful loving man pictured in your words! Beautiful
    I want to thank you for the like to one of my comments your “Like” lead me here to your great Blog and I decided to Follow I hope you will visit mine http://yesterdayafter.com I am a creative spirit that like to express herself in many ways beside my Art and Design. Hope to see you there and I am looking forward to your feature posts 😉

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  11. Miriam says:

    Such a wonderful insight and so beautifully written. When you do meet that special woman she will be lucky indeed.

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